Someone in a Facebook group I'm in recently posted this video of seven supposedly sexy things men do without realizing it.
Quite frankly, I don't find any of these things sexy. OK, eye contact is a bit sexy, but not if you look like you're stoned while you're doing it.
Scratching the beard, straightening the tie, fiddling with the watch...that's not sexy. That just seems fidgety and poorly groomed to me. So is rolling up sleeves. Fidgety and uncomfortable. Nothing sexy about being fidgety.
The thumb on the lip seems a sign of uncertainty and insecurity. There is nothing sexy about that. Women want men who are strong and confident (deep down inside, even the ones who won't admit it). So that's not sexy.
The --what did they call it? --the last dance lean and bracing against the door frame...not sexy. Shows laziness and poor posture. Not sexy. Not sexy at all.
It makes me wonder who makes up these kinds of videos. What do you think? Are these things sexy to you or not?